Wednesday 2 July 2008

A contrary approach

I've read that unless you know otherwise, assume the correct behaviour in Japan is the opposite to what you would expect in the West. A few examples come to mind (although Yoshie disputes the truth of some of the following):
  • Japanese consider it odd to have a shower in the morning - you should bathe before going to bed here.
  • It's rude to blow your nose in public, far more polite to snort the gunk back in.
  • When eating noodles, you are expected to slurp them up noisily.
  • It's perfectly OK to ask a new acquaintance how old they are.
  • When laughing, don't show your teeth - if you are a woman. You can often see women putting a hand over their mouth if they feel the need to laugh in public.
And here's another rule I discovered while in the bank last weekend - don't start a business conversation with pleasantries and small talk about the weather, latest sports news or disaster in China - start talking turkey, and only when you are standing up to leave may you change the subject to something far more intimate and engrossing like the extortionate price of Leicester cheese in Japan (for example).

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

I remember living with a Japanese guy at uni adn the slurping used to drive me insane.

it's like that old one in SE Asia about not pointing your toes at people.how do you sit in a circle like that?

I mean it's impossible.

Our Man in Abiko said...

Not impossible, just uncomfortable - sit on your knees - see the pic of me doing the playgroup (on the Tower Talk blog). No less absurd than doffing your cap or tipping a cab driver.

Anonymous said...

I was referring to the comfort.customs are customs and I do my best to respect them but that toes one has had me in some real pain and i'm not even sure anyone noticed.

Our Man in Abiko said...

You're big and ugly enough that people will make allowances, Dr D. Just don't wipe your backside with your right hand while whistling The Sash and you'll be OK.